FAQs
What is a Birth Doula?
-A doula is committed to a long stretch of continuous physical, emotional and informational support leading up to, during the labour/birth and immediately postpartum that is designed to fill any gaps that might arise in the care team. Any services that are offered must fall into a Doula's scope of practice.
-A doula will provide recommendations for evidence-based information during the prenatal period, nutritional support and recipes for the pregnant person and partner, navigating and writing a birth plan, pregnant person's self-care, help in navigating information given to the birthing person and partner from medical professionals, alternative medicines and practices etc. A doula helps the expectant parents write up a “birth plan” or list of things they would like to have happen during and directly after labour.
The doula will suggest or refer the expecting parents to programs or classes (if they are low-mid income suggest alternatives or free options) they can attend prenatally or postpartum.
The doula will suggest books or allow to borrow books from doula’s library (or midwives library).
The doula offers information on alternatives to typical pain medications and management.
-A doula supports the birthing person physically by giving them tutorials on diffrent birthing positions during prenatal visits, helping them get into and hold them in different birthing positions, offering message, counter pressure and aromatherapy during birth and making sure the birthing person and partner are drinking and eating.
-A doula brings support during the birth to not just the birthing person but also the partner. This support is especially beneficial when the partner is also experiencing emotional and physical highs/lows that come during pregnancy, labour and birth, pouring themselves into supporting the birthing person, difficulty navigating communication/boundaries with friends and families and the burden new life can generate. A birth doula is available to physically support the partner as well as the birthing person
--A doulas only focus is the client who has hired them, and are available for support in a professional manner. Doulas often work as the only birth support the clients may have, sometimes by situation but sometimes by the clients choice. They often work alongside the family and friend support the client already may have.
-A doula provides emotional support to the birthing person which can look like, a reassuring presence, listening to the birthing persons story and feelings around the birth and transition to parenthood, offering encouragement, no judgement and acceptance of the birthing persons choices. A doula can spot the early signs of mental and physical health concerns that might arise and will suggest the clients seek further support.There is strong evidence that the support a doula offers minimizes the chances of postpartum depression and anxiety.
Birth Doulas don't:
-A birth doula is not a medical professional, and well the doula is as committed to their client as a midwife or other care team member is, they work together in tandem to offer the birthing person, partner and infant the best care team.
-A birth doula does not replace a partner (unless the client chooses), medical professional, extended family & friends or the birthing persons community.
-A birth doula does not catch the baby or preform any clinical tasks.
-A birth doula does not make any medical decisions on behalf of the birthing person or partner.
What is a Postpartum Doula?
Postpartum Doulas do:
- A doula offer emotional support to the postpartum person which can look like, a reassuring presence, listening to the birthing person's story and feelings around the birth/transition to parenthood, offering encouragement, no judgement and acceptance of the birthing person's choices.
-A doula can spot the early signs of mental and physical health concerns that might arise and will suggest the clients seek further support.They also offer emotional support to the partner of the birthing person as well as other children the clients might already have, which can include knowledge of child development and experiences during transitions and listening to the partner retell what they experienced during the birth.
(There is strong evidence that the support a doula offers minimizes the chances of postpartum depression and anxiety.)
-A postpartum doula is focused on elevating and empowering the voice and choices of their clients, setting aside their own bias and answers first to the client with accountability usually through a doula certificating group or organization. This allows for the Doula to be completely committed and supportive of their client's choices and encourages the autonomy of the postpartum person.
-A postpartum doula is committed to long stretches of support designed to fill any gaps that might arise in the care team, but any services that are offered must fall into the Doula's scope of practice. These can include recommendations for evidence-based information on infant feeding practices, infant care and sleep, nutritional support and recipes for the postpartum person and partner, birthing persons self-care postpartum, help in navigating information given to parents from medical professionals, alternative medicines and practices etc.
-A doula’s primary focus is consistent care for the birthing/postpartum parent(s). This can include as needed:
help with feeding additional children the clients might already have.
Playing with other children well parents focus on new baby.
Assisting in transition to sibling hood by offering encouraging words or giving parents resources or information that might help with the transition.
The doula might stay with the infant well the parents rest during a night or day shift, allowing for more support
-A doula may provide household roles in addition to their other forms of support that intend to relieve stress of the postpartum client. These can often include:
Preparing a simple healthy meal for new parent/family, information on nutrition for mom and baby or helping parents navigate the information they have been given by other care professionals.
Lite cleaning, such as sweeping, wiping up messes made well doula is present, loading or washing dishes, cleaning up after doula’s own messes made well supporting.
Information on further support for the clients on best practices, for-hire professionals or non-for profits that can help with further support in the household during the prenatal and postpartum periods.
Postpartum Doulas don't:
- A postpartum doula does not offer assessments on infant development or assessments on the mental and physical health of their clients.
-A postpartum doula does not diagnosis mental or physical health conditions.
-A doulas primary role is not to clean, cook, primary supervision for infant or children or drive the client to or from appointments.
I have a supportive Partner, do I need a Doula?
-A partner offers a unique relationship and personal connection to the birthing person that other care providers and doulas do not have established. The relational groundwork the partner has set with the birthing person can provide reassurance during the birth and fourth trimester. A Partner’s knowledge of past experiences and health, knowledge of specific preferences their partner might have for the postpartum period and special connection to other children that might already be a part of the family.
-A doula brings support during birth and postpartum to not just the birthing person but also the partner. This support is especially beneficial when the partner is also experiencing emotional and physical highs/lows that come during this transition to parenthood. Often we experience difficulty navigating these new roles, difficulty navigating communication/boundaries with friends and families and the burden new life can generate.
-A doula is available to physically support the birthing person as well as their partner during the labour by continuous presence and a steady reassuring presence. During the fourth trimester, a doula offers support to the partner by making space for bonding time by taking on tasks that might otherwise be fulfilled by the partner, such as preparing snacks, navigating information on infant care and feeding and allowing both parents to rest both during day shifts and during night shifts.
-A doula might also notice the signs of postpartum depression in a partner, something that often gets overlooked during routine care procedures after birth.
When do I call my Doula?
IN THE DAYTIME – 7:00 A.M. - 11:00 P.M.
After 37 weeks, call or email after each prenatal appointment to update your doula with any pertinent information (i.e. test results, concerns).
If you have an internal exam please let your doula know how far dilated you are, how effaced, and the station of the baby’s head.
Call or email your doula any time you have questions or concerns.
If you are in labour or think you might be in labour, if you lose your mucus plug or have a bloody show, please text or call your doula right away.
Please call your doula if your bag of water releases even if you are not having contractions or if you’re having contractions that require your full attention and you’re unable to talk through them.
IN THE NIGHT – 11:00 P.M. - 7:00 A.M.
If you’re able to handle the contractions easily, try to slow your labour by drinking a large glass of water and getting into a warm bath for about 40 minutes, then try to sleep between contractions. If you can fall asleep, even between contractions, that is the best thing to do! It will be your last opportunity to sleep for a while. Please call or text in the night when you are ready for your doula to come, if you are feeling scared, or if you feel that something is urgent. Your doula doesn’t want you sitting at home worried about something and feeling like you can’t call. When we get a call in the middle of the night, we fully wake up to take your call and get ready to leave. When we go to bed at night, we are fully prepared to go to your birth so that we can leave right away. If you remember, please text or call with any possible early labour symptoms to give me a ‘heads up’ and let me know that you believe you are in labour. This way, your doula can ensure they are fully prepared and rested to support you.